New photo session with Mary Bashko:
http://www.facebook.com/media/set/?set=a.281592758535117.84724.184797418214652
The idea to mix art with religion came into my mind when I was watching the icon of "Blessed Virgin Mary" - Matka Boska Ostrobramska (origin. Pl.) - (Vilnius, Lithuania, The Baltic States). Originally, this icon was Polish and Catholic, but since years it was moved to Lithuania, where Catholic church still owns it.
She is so beautiful, with a look of peacefulness...
If you ever have a chance to visit this place, do it without thinking!
This icon changed my life...
Thursday, September 29, 2011
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
Tuesday, September 27, 2011
Family
Family is such an important thing, which you can’t replace in your life with something else. You can’t choose it, but you must take every person there the way they are, because it is something yours, something important just for you!
Once you get them, you have to learn how to be one of them. Your sisters and brothers can be annoying, or vice versa – the best friends of you. Anyway, you have the same blood inside. You must respect them same as yourself.
Your parents are the best what ever happened to you – it is their “fault” that you are walking on the Earth right now… You have them only once, so you’d better help them with everything.
They are getting old, day by day… Just imagine if you lose them tomorrow…
How often you remind them that you love them? How often you say “THANK YOU” for giving you life?
Yes… family is important!
Heart
The heart beating stops when you lose love...
Staying in this condition for long can lead to mental death.
Kiss! And by this kiss let love penetrate inside your blood, and your heart will start to beat again!
Exchange your feelings by kiss! It is so powerful thing... if only you kiss with passion.
Staying in this condition for long can lead to mental death.
Kiss! And by this kiss let love penetrate inside your blood, and your heart will start to beat again!
Exchange your feelings by kiss! It is so powerful thing... if only you kiss with passion.
Monday, September 26, 2011
Reality
How often it happens to meet the perfect match for life?
Sure, nobody is perfect, but the best match in all cases of relationships - it is not really often...
To understand if the person is "the best", you might check him/her with a lot of questions, or making strange situations to see the reaction.... Or you try the most straight way - start living together.
The best and in the same time the worst thing is to check it while living in the same flat, sharing all free time together, and so on...
The best, cause you have an opportunity to see your partner in different moments, situations, decisions... and if you still think that this is the perfect one, congrats!
The worst, cause if you realized that it is finally NOT the best match, it is kind of too late to talk about - you already live together, and can't just say "bye". Sure, you don't want to hurt him/her, and you start to lie, to cheat, to live "hidden" life...
Is it possible to improve situation, or if it is "NO" option, it is better to "divorce"???
I really think it is possible by reviving love - the only feeling that can bond people.
How?
By finding out what was so pretty in your actions when you just started your relationships, and try to repeat it, or change yourself "back in time". If you care, "listen" to a heart of your partner, do something to make him/her love you more.... or let it be, and be ready to say goodbye.
Sure, nobody is perfect, but the best match in all cases of relationships - it is not really often...
To understand if the person is "the best", you might check him/her with a lot of questions, or making strange situations to see the reaction.... Or you try the most straight way - start living together.
The best and in the same time the worst thing is to check it while living in the same flat, sharing all free time together, and so on...
The best, cause you have an opportunity to see your partner in different moments, situations, decisions... and if you still think that this is the perfect one, congrats!
The worst, cause if you realized that it is finally NOT the best match, it is kind of too late to talk about - you already live together, and can't just say "bye". Sure, you don't want to hurt him/her, and you start to lie, to cheat, to live "hidden" life...
Is it possible to improve situation, or if it is "NO" option, it is better to "divorce"???
I really think it is possible by reviving love - the only feeling that can bond people.
How?
By finding out what was so pretty in your actions when you just started your relationships, and try to repeat it, or change yourself "back in time". If you care, "listen" to a heart of your partner, do something to make him/her love you more.... or let it be, and be ready to say goodbye.
Wednesday, September 21, 2011
Two different worlds
Women and Men are from different "planets" - that is true!
Talking about the same thing with the same words we see absolutely different message behind it...
Sometimes it can really hurt one person or even both in relationship.
Men sincerely can't understand how important for women is to talk about feeling, fears, problems. Women can't feel happy if her "love" is not willing to listen her. Yes, sometimes women talk too much, and for men it sounds annoying... But if only men could spend some minutes per day just to ask "honey, how was your day?", "How do you feel?", etc., it would be so much more easier to be happy, smiley, faster at making "house" work with pleasure.... :)))
The huge difference between men and women is that men never talk about their problems or worries. They prefer to "go deeply inside themselves". When they "hide" so deep, it is better to leave them to think it over, and not to talk with them. Just let them be.
With women it is a big problem if they "go inside themselves" - for this they have only two reasons - or they are afraid to say something that can hurt another person, or they are offended...
Without understanding this difference women usually think that men's silence means the same as women's silence, and vice versa. Men think "oh, she is silence now, so it is better to let her stay alone, to solve this problems by herself" - but originally, women "scream out" with this something like "please, do something, talk with me, help me, support me, listen to me, let me feel loved and needed, show me how much you care..." - but sadly, mostly couples break because they "DON'T HEAR EACH OTHER".
As long I am together with my bf, as more I understand that it is a hard work to understand him, to react "normally" when he does something "strange" for me. But sometimes I cry because he can't understand me, and still I am not able to explain everything in "men's language"....
We are so different, but if we want to live whole life together in harmony, we have to learn the language of each other!!!
Talking about the same thing with the same words we see absolutely different message behind it...
Sometimes it can really hurt one person or even both in relationship.
Men sincerely can't understand how important for women is to talk about feeling, fears, problems. Women can't feel happy if her "love" is not willing to listen her. Yes, sometimes women talk too much, and for men it sounds annoying... But if only men could spend some minutes per day just to ask "honey, how was your day?", "How do you feel?", etc., it would be so much more easier to be happy, smiley, faster at making "house" work with pleasure.... :)))
The huge difference between men and women is that men never talk about their problems or worries. They prefer to "go deeply inside themselves". When they "hide" so deep, it is better to leave them to think it over, and not to talk with them. Just let them be.
With women it is a big problem if they "go inside themselves" - for this they have only two reasons - or they are afraid to say something that can hurt another person, or they are offended...
Without understanding this difference women usually think that men's silence means the same as women's silence, and vice versa. Men think "oh, she is silence now, so it is better to let her stay alone, to solve this problems by herself" - but originally, women "scream out" with this something like "please, do something, talk with me, help me, support me, listen to me, let me feel loved and needed, show me how much you care..." - but sadly, mostly couples break because they "DON'T HEAR EACH OTHER".
As long I am together with my bf, as more I understand that it is a hard work to understand him, to react "normally" when he does something "strange" for me. But sometimes I cry because he can't understand me, and still I am not able to explain everything in "men's language"....
We are so different, but if we want to live whole life together in harmony, we have to learn the language of each other!!!
Thursday, September 15, 2011
Yes, I can!
Already more then half a year I live in Germany, but still my German skills are low. I know that I need it, but I have a lot of excuses why I have no time and wish for it right now... Sure, I will learn it - slowly, but I will ! Who knows how much time will be spent on it...
New semester is on (to be precise, two semesters and a half)! I am going to study in two semesters at once, plus some subjects from other semesters, plus German language course! I think that I can do it all, and with good results (I promised myself), but there is one more point I faced for the first time in my life - I started to live with a man...
He is great! Last year, autumn, we started as just friends. Then, studying in the same uni and living in the same city we became a couple. Of course it is just in "two" words, but still... I am sure that we have sincere feelings, we love each other! I don't know who feels more, but I can do everything for him...
Once you met the real love, the greatest person, the best match - you have to "hold" him/her near, not to lose! Because this happens just once a life!!! I seriously mean real LOVE! Yes, only with him I understood what is REAL love, responsibility of feelings, tolerance...
Sure, nobody is perfect... But when two people decided to be together, they go on a lot of concessions - not to hurt each other's feelings,personality, etc. It is important to be careful with another person... Cause in the beginning of any relationship you don't know how this person can react on this or that. It is highly important to "listen" to each other - to notice any change in a mood, to learn aspirations, wishes, and tastes of each other.
Some people just live together, pretending that they know each other and everything is fine... but in the result of this "knowing" they get constant argues, scandals, incomprehensions...break.
Why I am talking about this topic for so long now? I just want to splash out all my emotions and fears about my future!!!!!!!!! Studying a lot (as I expect) + German + "housewife" obligations + huge work to understand who this guy really is... Am I able to deal with this all ??? Can I stay myself after time, or I will totally dissolve in him???
New semester is on (to be precise, two semesters and a half)! I am going to study in two semesters at once, plus some subjects from other semesters, plus German language course! I think that I can do it all, and with good results (I promised myself), but there is one more point I faced for the first time in my life - I started to live with a man...
He is great! Last year, autumn, we started as just friends. Then, studying in the same uni and living in the same city we became a couple. Of course it is just in "two" words, but still... I am sure that we have sincere feelings, we love each other! I don't know who feels more, but I can do everything for him...
Once you met the real love, the greatest person, the best match - you have to "hold" him/her near, not to lose! Because this happens just once a life!!! I seriously mean real LOVE! Yes, only with him I understood what is REAL love, responsibility of feelings, tolerance...
Sure, nobody is perfect... But when two people decided to be together, they go on a lot of concessions - not to hurt each other's feelings,personality, etc. It is important to be careful with another person... Cause in the beginning of any relationship you don't know how this person can react on this or that. It is highly important to "listen" to each other - to notice any change in a mood, to learn aspirations, wishes, and tastes of each other.
Some people just live together, pretending that they know each other and everything is fine... but in the result of this "knowing" they get constant argues, scandals, incomprehensions...break.
Why I am talking about this topic for so long now? I just want to splash out all my emotions and fears about my future!!!!!!!!! Studying a lot (as I expect) + German + "housewife" obligations + huge work to understand who this guy really is... Am I able to deal with this all ??? Can I stay myself after time, or I will totally dissolve in him???
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