How often it happens to meet the perfect match for life?
Sure, nobody is perfect, but the best match in all cases of relationships - it is not really often...
To understand if the person is "the best", you might check him/her with a lot of questions, or making strange situations to see the reaction.... Or you try the most straight way - start living together.
The best and in the same time the worst thing is to check it while living in the same flat, sharing all free time together, and so on...
The best, cause you have an opportunity to see your partner in different moments, situations, decisions... and if you still think that this is the perfect one, congrats!
The worst, cause if you realized that it is finally NOT the best match, it is kind of too late to talk about - you already live together, and can't just say "bye". Sure, you don't want to hurt him/her, and you start to lie, to cheat, to live "hidden" life...
Is it possible to improve situation, or if it is "NO" option, it is better to "divorce"???
I really think it is possible by reviving love - the only feeling that can bond people.
How?
By finding out what was so pretty in your actions when you just started your relationships, and try to repeat it, or change yourself "back in time". If you care, "listen" to a heart of your partner, do something to make him/her love you more.... or let it be, and be ready to say goodbye.
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