Two different worlds

Women and Men are from different "planets" - that is true!

Talking about the same thing with the same words we see absolutely different message behind it...
Sometimes it can really hurt one person or even both in relationship.

Men sincerely can't understand how important for women is to talk about feeling, fears, problems. Women can't feel happy if her "love" is not willing to listen her. Yes, sometimes women talk too much, and for men it sounds annoying... But if only men could spend some minutes per day just to ask "honey, how was your day?", "How do you feel?", etc., it would be so much more easier to be happy, smiley, faster at making "house" work with pleasure.... :)))

The huge difference between men and women is that men never talk about their problems or worries. They prefer to "go deeply inside themselves". When they "hide" so deep, it is better to leave them to think it over, and not to talk with them. Just let them be.

With women it is a big problem if they "go inside themselves" - for this they have only two reasons - or they are afraid to say something that can hurt another person, or they are offended...

Without understanding this difference women usually think that men's silence means the same as women's silence, and vice versa. Men think "oh, she is silence now, so it is better to let her stay alone, to solve this problems by herself" - but originally, women "scream out" with this something like "please, do something, talk with me, help me, support me, listen to me, let me feel loved and needed, show me how much you care..." - but sadly, mostly couples break because they "DON'T HEAR EACH OTHER".

As long I am together with my bf, as more I understand that it is a hard work to understand him, to react "normally" when he does something "strange" for me. But sometimes I cry because he can't understand me, and still I am not able to explain everything in "men's language"....

We are so different, but if we want to live whole life together in harmony, we have to learn the language of each other!!!